‘s 4th baby mama, Sandra Iheuwa, has reacted to Toyin Lawani’s Instagram post regarding women that prevent their children’s fathers from seeing them, as punishment when their relationships go sour.

Recall that Flavision reported earlier today that Toyin Lawani advised such women to desist, insisting they cannot replace their babies’ fathers, no matter how hard they try to do so.

Reacting to Lawanis Instagram post, Iheuwa stated that some mothers do not prevent their children from seeing their fathers. She argued that some men simply don’t want to be in their children’s lives, or show love to them, or see, hold them even at birth and after birth.

Furthermore, Iheuwa added that if a man doesn’t want to be a participating parent, it would be best that he stays away, since their child would be better off that way.

Iheuwa wrote:

Some women do not block kids from their dad, some men just don’t want to be in their child’s life or have love for them to even see or hold them even at birth and after birth……if the man doesn’t want to be a participating parent it’s best he stays where he is and stays away because at times the kids will be better off without such father…..you can’t force them to parent. #truestory

Even after someone commented that what if the father is not avoiding his child, but the baby’s mother proves to be dramatic, she insisted that the father is avoiding the kid, irrespective of how the woman behaves.

Iheuwa continued:

The father is avoiding the child irrespective of how the mom behaves there are other avenues of seeing or being in the child’s life if the father doesn’t want to deal with the mother for whatever reason. There is no excuse whatsoever the father can call the mother chat with her all day but never for once ask about the child or schedule a day to see the child. You haven’t dealt with this kind of men before they will create excuses upon excuses for no seeing their own child. If the woman was dramatic or whatever why then release inside her and get her pregnant? ? it takes 2 to tangle. Some women are not the problem here. You haven’t met a dead beat and you do you will understand

Justin Nwosu

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